I would love to find out.
1.Tell her she is beautiful
2.Hold her hand at any moment … even if its just for a second.
3.Hug her from behind
4.Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5.Wrestle with her
6.Don’t go hang out with you ex when she is not with you, you might not relize how badly it hurts her.
7.If you’re talking to another girl, when you’re done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her….let her know she’s yours and they aren’t.
8.Write her notes or call her just to say “hi”
9.Introduce her to your friends … as your girlfriend.
10.Play with her hair.
11.Pick her up (she loves it)
12.Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn’t like it
13.Make her laugh
14.Let her fall asleep in your arms.
15.If she’s mad at you, kiss her.
16.If you care about her, then TELL HER
17.Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal (she’ll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she’ll treasure it forever), and one of her t-shirts (she’ll most likely wear it to bed) or sweatshirts sprayed with her cologne!! and flowers or something occasionally.
18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you’re alone.
19.Look her in the eyes and smile.
20.Hang out with her on weekends
21.Kiss her in the rain
22.Kiss her just for the heck of it
23.If your listening to music, let her listen too.
24.Remember her birthday and get her something, even if it’s simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. It means all the world to HER.
25.When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don’t (it’ll make her happy.)
26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don’t care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don’t necessarily have to have hour long conversations every night but its nice for them to hear your voice even for a quick hello.
27.Give her what she wants
28.Recognize the small things … they usually mean the most.
29.Don’t hug her friends or your friends that are girls because she’ll feel left out.
30.Hang out with her whenever you are free and you should be free to hang with your girl friend all the time
31.If u care about her…SHOW her!
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6 comments:
Yes 1.Tell her she is beautiful
Yes 2.Hold her hand at any moment … even if its just for a second.
Yes 3.Hug her from behind
YesYes 4.Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
Not so much. 5.Wrestle with her
A secure relationship can usually handle this but don't go overboard.6.Don’t go hang out with you ex when she is not with you, you might not relize how badly it hurts her.
Yes it's petty but it makes us feel better. 7.If you’re talking to another girl, when you’re done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her….let her know she’s yours and they aren’t.
Yes - we save those notes I'll have you know. 8.Write her notes or call her just to say “hi”
Yes 9.Introduce her to your friends … as your girlfriend.
YesYes Offering to brush it is a big plus too 10.Play with her hair.
False. Unless it's over the threshold on your wedding day. Mostly when a guy picks us up we worry we're too heavy and gives us neurosis. 11.Pick her up (she loves it)
Yes but don't be creepy jealous. 12.Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn’t like it
Yes please. 13.Make her laugh
Yes If a girl trusts you enough to sleep on you - be honored...we don't do it often. 14.Let her fall asleep in your arms.
Yes, but then talk about the reason she's mad. Unless it's a stupid reason ;) Then just kiss her hehe15.If she’s mad at you, kiss her.
Yes Yes Yes Yes xinfinity. We know yo guys don't always have words but it means a lot when you try. If you can remember one specific detail about a special time you shared it goes for miles. 16.If you care about her, then TELL HER
17.Every guy should give their girl 3 things:
TRUE - a stuffed animal (she’ll hug it every time she goes to sleep),
EH. It doesn't have to be expensive, just something she can wear that makes her think of you. Even a thoughtful keychain is cool. MAke a meaning out of it. A flashlight to light her way, a guardian angel to watch over her when you're not there - sweet stuff that shows though is a MAJOR plusjewelry (she’ll treasure it forever),
I've been married for eleven years, and I've learned alot in that time (mostly through error, but I digress). I can verify that this list is pretty dead-on. my wife even likes the wrestling!
Great list, Cal. And I tend to think you are the kind-hearted sort who would know most all of this naturally. Just give it time, right?
"15.If she’s mad at you, kiss her."
Umm, yeah I would NOT recommend this. Possibly hazardous to your health, LOL and gives the impression that you're not really listening to her grievances.
Once the fight is over, though, kisses and hugs are very welcome!:)
P.S. Girls also like it when guys do their share of cooking and cleaning. Or at least, I like it...
Cal: Not included in helpful suggestions is how to handle the fearful "Do I look fat in this?" question; sometimes phrased, "Does this make me look fat?"
First, here is my list of don'ts:
Do not demonstrate an anxious hesitation. You are supremely screwed if you do this, and nothing can save you. If you for a single nanosecond give the impression the answer might be yes, you may as well take off our uniform and hit the showers. You aren’t getting in the game today.
Nearly equally foolish is the kneejerk “Of course not!" response, issued in obvious nervous fear. This will only garner you the "how did I end up with such a weenie" disdainful expression. Answer too fast, and you’re obviously just placating. This is the mark of a weakling, a coward.
No, gentleman, there is only one correct response: Look at her body in those jeans/dress/skirt very thoughtfully. You might even go for the gold here and ask her to turn around once or twice -- (but this move is full of hazards and pitfalls, and should only be attempted by a seasoned professional) - while always making it very clear you are liking what you're seeing.
After carefully considering your wife or girlfriend, look her in the eyes and say - "Honey, they make you look great." If you get that blessed, happy smile in response, go on in for the Hug From Behind. Job well done, soldier!
Oh, and PS, you must mean everything you say every step of the way. -- Mykal
PS: I agree with Christy. Wrestling works maybe -maybe once or twice in the course of a lifelong relationship.
PPSS: Yep, Hannah, my field research regarding the "kiss 'em when they're mad" concept has not been at all successful. I have tried this move more than once in the past (I am not sure why I keep believing this might work). terrible results every time. Just terrible.
-- Mykal
Excellent list!
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